Deferred attention

Deferred attention

Working with SME companies in Estonia and abroad, I keep seeing the same paradox: everyone knows that regular 1:1s with team members are important. Everyone’s read about it. Everyone nods, and still doesn’t do it. In big companies, 1:1s have long been part of the...
Fear of missing life

Fear of missing life

Today, something personal. I’ll tell you about a pattern I catch myself in more often than I’d like. It’s FOMO – fear of missing out. It doesn’t always look like the anxious “What if I was invited?”Sometimes, it shows up differently: – You take on a new project,...
Micromanagement kills

Micromanagement kills

I remember that time vividly – when I officially became a manager for the first time, but in reality, I was living in a constant state of control. I wasn’t just working – I was on duty. Watching every word, every email, every deadline. It felt like if I...